Have you ever been around someone whom you felt were not authentic? Let's be real... you felt like their personality was very FAKE. You weren't buying what they tried to sell you because you have this inner knowing about who they are at the core!
Listen... being authentic is ok. Being genuine is what the people really need because there is so much fake and phony going on all around the world, especially on these social media outlets.
We have to understand that our uniqueness is everything. Being who God called you to be is fabulous! Shrinking back or imitating anything outside of that is unacceptable; it's not even an option!
I want to give you keys to being and staying your authentic self no matter what:
1. Know Your Identity in Christ
"But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light." (1 Peter 2:9, NIV)
Understanding that you are uniquely made and chosen by God gives you confidence to live authentically.
2. Be Honest and Walk in Truth
"The Lord detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy." (Proverbs 12:22, NIV)
Living authentically requires truthfulness with yourself and others.
3. Embrace Your Uniqueness
"I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well." (Psalm 139:14, NIV)
God created you with unique gifts, talents, and personality—embrace them.
4. Overcome Fear of People’s Opinions
"Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is kept safe." (Proverbs 29:25, NIV)
People-pleasing can hinder authenticity; trust in God instead.
5. Live with Integrity
"The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity." (Proverbs 11:3, NIV)
Your actions should align with your values and faith.
6. Be Courageous in Who God Called You to Be
"Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." (Joshua 1:9, NIV)
Authenticity takes courage, but God is with you.
7. Guard Your Heart and Mind
"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." (Proverbs 4:23, NIV)
Be mindful of what influences you, staying rooted in God's truth.
8. Be Led by the Holy Spirit
"Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit." (Galatians 5:25, NIV)
The Holy Spirit guides you to be your best, authentic self in Christ.
9. Love Yourself as God Loves You
"Love your neighbor as yourself." (Mark 12:31, NIV)
You can’t truly love others if you don’t love yourself in a healthy, God-honoring way.
10. Let Go of Past Mistakes
"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!" (2 Corinthians 5:17, NIV)
Don’t let past failures define you—embrace the new life in Christ.
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